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@ a047a37c:dfcb432c
2025-02-26 02:43:24
Please consider using another Linux distro. Linux Mint is not safe, or secure.
To confirm this information for yourself. Please download and run the application etherape. Monitor your network connections for about 20 minutes. Take notes of all the connections it makes and research the domains. Don't panic.
If you need help migrating over to a new trustworthy Linux distro. I am here to help you on your journey towards a safer Linux experience. GM
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@ d4ad3b6e:2e56e2a7
2025-02-26 02:41:10
#nostrgang
https://media.ditto.pub/7e892c7ea8193b0080002c9ead95b92ec194020bfd020d97578f82e85f555162.png
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@ 832b77d5:a5e3d55c
2025-02-26 02:40:24
🟩BUY BTC with USD
Price: 92258.29USD (4%)
BTC: 0.005
USD: 461
Method: Strike
Created: 2025-02-26T02:39:29Z
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@ 832b77d5:a5e3d55c
2025-02-26 02:40:19
🟩BUY BTC with USD
Price: 90492.8USD (2%)
BTC: 0.0044
USD: 398
Method: Zelle
Created: 2025-02-26T02:38:42Z
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@ e7bf8dad:839ef3db
2025-02-26 02:40:15
Block 885337
6 - high priority
6 - medium priority
5 - low priority
4 - no priority
2 - purging
#bitcoinfees #mempool
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@ a047a37c:dfcb432c
2025-02-26 02:40:09
Good game.
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@ c558c7cc:b0b7b89e
2025-02-26 02:39:46
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@ a047a37c:dfcb432c
2025-02-26 02:39:08
Also training isn't a bad idea either if you are physically able to.
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@ a047a37c:dfcb432c
2025-02-26 02:38:28
I don't have this problem, but if I did. That is what carrying an EDC pistol is for.
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@ a7cab9f1:5718f2fc
2025-02-26 02:35:54
Write her a letter.
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@ f03df3d4:a4d4f676
2025-02-26 02:35:15
Block 885335
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2 - purging
#bitcoinfees #mempool
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@ c558c7cc:b0b7b89e
2025-02-26 02:33:59
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@ c558c7cc:b0b7b89e
2025-02-26 02:33:13
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@ a047a37c:dfcb432c
2025-02-26 02:31:34
Now this raises even more questions.
Define entity?
How do they work with you?
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@ cbab7074:f9f0bd61
2025-02-26 02:30:15
Block 885334
5 - high priority
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2 - purging
#bitcoinfees #mempool
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@ a44dbc9a:b6c4bf4b
2025-02-26 02:29:31
fear is your enemy
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@ 2f52b19f:79752323
2025-02-26 02:29:22
Tell me all the ways Telegram is bad to use and why I should stop using it asap? I am getting black pilled.
#asknostr
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@ dab833d7:0d5ca0b4
2025-02-26 02:28:43
GM bro
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@ e4d39703:e4dc7806
2025-02-26 02:28:38
Does the app you’re using have a whitelist option?
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@ 466eeb55:4477917b
2025-02-26 02:28:26
GM nostr hi there
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@ c558c7cc:b0b7b89e
2025-02-26 02:26:54
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@ f03df3d4:a4d4f676
2025-02-26 02:25:15
Block 885334
5 - high priority
5 - medium priority
5 - low priority
4 - no priority
2 - purging
#bitcoinfees #mempool
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@ a047a37c:dfcb432c
2025-02-26 02:24:19
Ok.
What is yummy?
Gonna need some clarification here.
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@ c5337187:a5f35224
2025-02-26 02:23:57
Bitcoin Fee: 5 Sat/vB
#bitcoin #fees
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@ 935dfa13:45a2c466
2025-02-26 02:23:40
GM mister
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@ 7b194566:d0b94c92
2025-02-26 02:23:23
GM Morning! It’s time to get up, shine, and watch #Lightning soar.
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@ 2936462b:5b3d683b
2025-02-26 02:23:03
南城丶过客:纸醉金迷，灯红酒绿，夜夜笙歌，逍遥快活[并不简单]
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@ a723805c:0342dc9c
2025-02-26 02:22:51
https://i.nostr.build/oawb5LiBFpftuQGn.jpg
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@ 2936462b:5b3d683b
2025-02-26 02:22:41
菊座:嫂子在哪儿
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@ 2936462b:5b3d683b
2025-02-26 02:22:15
嚼物理的小锺
:这 ktv 怎么这么温馨？
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@ 87bb9caa:0bc3d4d7
2025-02-26 02:22:06
在林彪折戟沉沙之后，毛泽东面临的头等大事，就是选择一个接班人。经过艰难的思索和反复的衡量，他终于选定了一个人：王洪文。选这个人有两重意义：第一，他是造反起家的，他接班意味着“文革”的成果得以保存，也象征着“文革”取得了伟大胜利;第二，他务过农、当过兵、做过工，工农兵一身而三任。用毛泽 东的话说：“我们是无产阶级专政的国家，为什么不找一个姓‘工’的?”
其实，毛泽东心仪的人是张春桥。但他不敢选张，庐山会议使他明白，张和老干部、特别是军队老人势同水火，不能选。朱永嘉曾这样分析：
王洪文能力不行，选择他，也是无可奈何的事情。这个选择，对于毛泽东来讲也是没有办法的办法。选这样一个人，可以缓冲一下张春桥跟老人们的矛盾，因为这个矛盾已经是很难挽回了。毛泽东跟林彪讲过，让小张上来接我们的班，这一下就把张放在火上烤了。(《“文革”上海写作组的那些事儿》，《南风窗》2010年第8期)
让王洪文接班，最受委屈的莫过于周恩来。八届十一中全会，周恩来告诉陈毅要让林彪接班，陈毅吃惊地说：“怎么是他呢?应该是你嘛!”不管怎么说，林彪还是位开国元帅，如今要周恩来侍奉一位“儿童团”，其荒诞不经，无以言表。
周恩来何等聪明，王洪文接班，他带头表态拥护，并利用各种场合做党政军内老同志的说服工作，为此甚至不惜和许世友当面争辩(1973年8月23日周在中央和各地党政军负责人会议上的讲话)。
十大会上王洪文正式接班，十大的之前和之后，政治局两次开会批判周恩来。批判是否和接班有关，不敢妄测，但王副主席积极参加甚至主持过批判会，却是不争的事实。批判会是那样的惊心动魄，平时对周礼敬有加的人，此时相遇亦形同陌路。周恩来身心交瘁，甚至已做好下台的准备。不料，毛泽东一席话，把一场暴风骤雨化作了风和日丽，而且把事情推到了“不好惹”的“小将”身上。
---“儿童团”王洪文成毛泽东接班人:周恩来黯然神伤
作者： 孙言诚
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@ 2936462b:5b3d683b
2025-02-26 02:21:43
你问我最近在干啥？在ktv玩呢。
https://postimg.cc/gallery/Y9Pdnpw
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@ 30e8cbf1:74fccbaa
2025-02-26 02:20:45
Good night sleep tight 💤
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@ 3f770d65:7a745b24
2025-02-26 02:20:21
It took me a while to understand this, especially as a child. I always wanted to have my possessions in mint condition. Eventually, I realized that this meant that I wasn't enjoying them. https://nostr.download/bbbcb4467986cd82eae026f737593d653f181370073e82c67a9f0a944fcab51d.png
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@ a047a37c:dfcb432c
2025-02-26 02:20:01
GN
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@ f648d923:820d7bb9
2025-02-26 02:19:56
what the hell is that.那是什么鬼东西。
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@ b3f585f3:842f5f90
2025-02-26 02:19:47
What i'd like to know with drafts are why do old ones appear then quickly disappear after I load up amethyst? Are drafts actually deleted or just hidden?
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@ f648d923:820d7bb9
2025-02-26 02:18:46
二手女孩子。没人要了。才跪求男人娶她。中国女人就这么没尊严吗？
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@ a0f0ad35:2a9c4cff
2025-02-26 02:18:35
GN GUYS🙏🤝 nostr:note1v4cwvwfqkg5af8margt335vyeksdrckpqnx9sexpnqw5uc2nh07sfucc6t
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@ c558c7cc:b0b7b89e
2025-02-26 02:17:42
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@ f648d923:820d7bb9
2025-02-26 02:17:17
happy husband happy life.
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@ 832b77d5:a5e3d55c
2025-02-26 02:16:47
🟩BUY BTC with USD
Price: 90395.8USD (2%)
BTC: 0.0022
USD: 199
Method: Zelle
Created: 2025-02-26T02:15:31Z
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@ a047a37c:dfcb432c
2025-02-26 02:16:18
Is it just me, or does Nostr posting seem a little slow tonight?
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@ f648d923:820d7bb9
2025-02-26 02:15:25
女人结婚都很凄惨。婚姻给女人带来都是灾祸。何必往火坑里跳呢？自找麻烦。自己努力工作养活自己就好了。不需要进入婚姻关系太复杂又麻烦。
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@ c558c7cc:b0b7b89e
2025-02-26 02:15:18
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@ f03df3d4:a4d4f676
2025-02-26 02:15:15
Block 885332
5 - high priority
5 - medium priority
5 - low priority
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2 - purging
#bitcoinfees #mempool
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@ d36e8083:ac0b6bec
2025-02-26 02:13:57
You can try out nostr:nprofile1qqs2xugc5jyguqkj36rk0syv4tmnkjdtmtperttl7x9rqjy3ustdcvcppemhxue69uhkummn9ekx7mp0qy2hwumn8ghj7un9d3shjtnyv9kh2uewd9hj7qg6waehxw309aek2mnyd96zumn0wdnxcctjv5hxxmmd9uxa0uz8!
https://shopstr.store
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@ f648d923:820d7bb9
2025-02-26 02:12:20
女人，要懂的保护自己身体。保护自己的处女之身。至关重要的事情。女孩子不与男人拿结婚证，绝对不能与男人上床这优良传统是保护女人身体权益。凡是婚前同居倒霉是女人。不结婚。导致女孩子变成二手女人。太晦气。又倒霉。
二手女人。太凄惨。其实也没必要一定要结婚。先谋生，让自己变得值钱有价值。也不需要结婚。
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@ c558c7cc:b0b7b89e
2025-02-26 02:12:17
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@ 74187bbb:9a7bb570
2025-02-26 02:11:57
nostr:nprofile1qqsyvrp9u6p0mfur9dfdru3d853tx9mdjuhkphxuxgfwmryja7zsvhqpzamhxue69uhhv6t5daezumn0wd68yvfwvdhk6tcpz9mhxue69uhkummnw3ezuamfdejj7qgwwaehxw309ahx7uewd3hkctcscpyug UI thought for #amethyst: put a count of drafts in parentheses next to the "Drafts" text so the user is reminded they're there (like with draft emails)
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@ c558c7cc:b0b7b89e
2025-02-26 02:11:28
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@ 1bd32a38:77a23e69
2025-02-26 02:10:49
This is the way. https://image.nostr.build/1dcea59cf9873b296c804dd1271156106067ceca086ceb01fae5547eacf53cc4.jpg
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@ 21335073:a244b1ad
2025-02-26 02:10:49
Deftones and Mars Volta tour. I might just go.
https://www.billboard.com/music/rock/chino-moreno-deaftones-crosses-tour-mexico-1235909096/
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@ f03df3d4:a4d4f676
2025-02-26 02:10:15
Block 885332
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2 - purging
#bitcoinfees #mempool
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@ 832b77d5:a5e3d55c
2025-02-26 02:09:58
🟥SELL BTC for BSQ
Price: 1979sat
BTC: 0.01
BSQ: 505.31
Method: BSQ Swap
Created: 2025-02-26T02:08:09Z
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@ a0f0ad35:2a9c4cff
2025-02-26 02:09:57
Hahahaha, “comunismo pra você, capitalismo para mim” 😂😂 nostr:note1q8r49wk507hn78uh204qgt7shpsz3fqzwyeq62njk9dx99dj33rqq5j758
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@ f648d923:820d7bb9
2025-02-26 02:09:56
https://c.m.163.com/news/a/JP86MJPC05567PIK.html?spss=newsapp
所以。女孩子不拿结婚证，绝对不能与男人上床这优良传统是保护女人身体权益。凡是婚前同居倒霉是女人。不结婚。导致女孩子变成二手女人。太晦气。
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@ a0f0ad35:2a9c4cff
2025-02-26 02:08:32
Guys, I want to thank you from the bottom of my heart. Thank you for all the zaps, shares, and everything else, and to everyone who commented, asked, etc. In this world we live in today, this is rare. Nostri is the real machine, and when Bitcoin gives me the opportunity to visit your country and repay each of you, it will be done. I’ve never had this kind of support here, not even from my parents. I hope you continue to support us, and my brother and I will spread Bitcoin to everyone! Thank you in advance. Later this week, I’ll record one of our sales in sats!! It’s a matter of honor. THANK YOU, EVERYONE!! 🥹🤝🥳🥳🙏
E aos brasileiros, estamos todos juntos nessa!! 👊 obrigado
#nostr #grownostr #bitcoin #plebchain #food
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@ c558c7cc:b0b7b89e
2025-02-26 02:08:17
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@ 832b77d5:a5e3d55c
2025-02-26 02:08:13
🟥SELL BTC for BSQ
Price: 1979sat
BTC: 0.01
BSQ: 505.31
Method: BSQ Swap
Created: 2025-02-26T02:08:00Z
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@ 832b77d5:a5e3d55c
2025-02-26 02:06:46
🟩BUY BTC with USD
Price: 91984.83USD (4%)
BTC: 0.0055 - 0.0101
USD: 506 - 929
Method: Zelle
Created: 2025-02-26T02:06:20Z
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@ c558c7cc:b0b7b89e
2025-02-26 02:06:15
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@ a047a37c:dfcb432c
2025-02-26 02:06:14
I just miss my cousin.
Need to reconnect with her.
I am so proud of her for everything that she accomplished and her service to our country. I want to tell her that, but the situation with that side of the family is turbulent. I don't know how to proceed forward for fear of awkward topics in conversation.
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@ f03df3d4:a4d4f676
2025-02-26 02:05:15
Block 885330
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2 - purging
#bitcoinfees #mempool
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@ c558c7cc:b0b7b89e
2025-02-26 02:04:46
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@ a0f0ad35:2a9c4cff
2025-02-26 02:03:55
Congrats, awsome👏👏
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@ a047a37c:dfcb432c
2025-02-26 02:03:33
GN. Sleep well. Stay awesome.
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@ a0f0ad35:2a9c4cff
2025-02-26 02:03:20
Amazing!!!! nostr:note10tx5dfgtyk40w4u25gteugaktpln8zhvfa50xn2z6f2wvpq7sl5qc2tmzf
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@ 79c9f2c0:e20e6ba6
2025-02-26 02:01:54
いきなりあったかいので、服装に困る。急に喉元すかすかして、やばいかも？
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@ 9267545d:d4e3688a
2025-02-26 02:00:25
Over the years I've developed a sense for shitcoiners.
If I meet one at a conference or meetup they don't even need to say anything about it. I can tell they're still in the casino.
Some of you may know what I'm talking about.
I'm beginning to get that same sense for people who still use Twitter and Instagram.
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@ 832b77d5:a5e3d55c
2025-02-26 02:00:22
🟩BUY BTC with EUR
Price: 107118.34EUR (27%)
BTC: 0.0004 - 0.0008
EUR: 43 - 86
Method: SEPA
Created: 2025-02-26T01:59:38Z
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@ f03df3d4:a4d4f676
2025-02-26 02:00:15
Block 885329
9 - high priority
8 - medium priority
7 - low priority
4 - no priority
2 - purging
#bitcoinfees #mempool
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@ 832b77d5:a5e3d55c
2025-02-26 02:00:14
🟩BUY BTC with EUR
Price: 101214.18EUR (20%)
BTC: 0.001 - 0.002
EUR: 101 - 202
Method: SEPA
Created: 2025-02-26T01:59:13Z
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@ c558c7cc:b0b7b89e
2025-02-26 01:59:41
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@ 79c9f2c0:e20e6ba6
2025-02-26 01:59:07
我慢が積み重なって爆発するのと、ほんの些細なことでいちいち着火するのとは、天と地の差なのだよ。
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@ c558c7cc:b0b7b89e
2025-02-26 01:59:04
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@ 9c2e0a87:13c420d2
2025-02-26 01:58:47
as for BAP i mean he's not wrong. the greatest white civilization was Rome and when you consider they had no air conditioners in Rome and had to work in the sun during the day ( rather than chill under AC or outside of club at night ) they were sweating a lot more than people sweat in Florida.
there is a fad these days where people think going to Sauna to will improve their health.
well Florida in the summer is one giant sauna !
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@ 79c9f2c0:e20e6ba6
2025-02-26 01:58:31
情緒が安定している人がいい。すぐに着火する精神的な未熟人間に、ほとほと疲れたし呆れる
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@ c558c7cc:b0b7b89e
2025-02-26 01:56:56
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2025-02-26 01:56:36
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https://twitter.com/IlhanMN/status/1894396064515399931
ag.https://twitter.com/AGPamBondi
https://twitter.com/RepLuna/status/1894182219318514063
https://twitter.com/bennyjohnson/status/1894491756978131220
https://twitter.com/samhusseini/status/1149679938980765696
https://twitter.com/dbongino
https://twitter.com/davincentjames/status/1893865063334789371
https://twitter.com/davincentjames/status/1863362782286037159
https://twitter.com/netanyahu
https://twitter.com/realannapaulina/status/1816309896217862386
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@ a619eb76:11d75935
2025-02-26 01:56:30
Another thing: I just updated to the most recent version of albyhub, and there is now a 'auto unlock' in the settings. This basically saves your password for your albyhub service, so that anytime your Start9 restarts, power goes off or albyhub needs to restart...it has the password and can unlock your service for you. That may help your experience with albyhub too.
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@ a047a37c:dfcb432c
2025-02-26 01:56:07
Buy bitcoin.
Buy precious metals.
Then your ass is covered no matter which way shit hits the fan.
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@ f03df3d4:a4d4f676
2025-02-26 01:55:15
Block 885329
8 - high priority
7 - medium priority
6 - low priority
4 - no priority
2 - purging
#bitcoinfees #mempool
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@ b6f9d31f:8ab0904f
2025-02-26 01:54:55
https://image.nostr.build/8506653ed6e70e322360768f82a5e11f44d0f1d53790e6b05e93ca902ad26847.jpg
พ่อแม่หลายคนบอกว่า
ลูกคือความหมายหนึ่งเดียวในชีวิตของพวกเขา
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พ่อแม่หลายคนบอกว่า
ทุกวันนี้ พวกเขามีชีวิตอยู่เพื่อลูกเท่านั้น
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คำพูดเหล่านี้สะท้อนถึง
ความรักอันสวยงาม
ที่พ่อแม่มีให้กับลูกของพวกเขา
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อย่างไรก็ตาม
การ “ใส่ไข่ทั้งหมดในตะกร้าหนึ่งใบ” เช่นนี้
(แม้จะเป็นการกระทำที่เต็มไปด้วยความรัก)
ก็มีข้อควรระวังอยู่อย่างน้อย 3 ประการด้วยกันครับ
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ประการแรก
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เมื่อนกน้อยเติบโตขึ้น
ในที่สุดแล้ว นกตัวนั้นก็จะ “ปีกกล้าขาแข็ง”
และ “บินออกจากรัง” ของพ่อแม่เพื่อไป “สร้างรังของตัวเอง”
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เช่นกันครับ วันหนึ่ง เมื่อลูกเติบโตขึ้น
ลูกก็จะออกจากบ้านและเริ่มต้นสร้างชีวิตของลูกเอง
(รวมถึงอาจจะมีลูกเป็นของตัวเอง)
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หากพ่อแม่มีชีวิตอยู่เพียงเพื่อลูกอย่างเดียว
พ่อแม่มีโอกาสที่จะ “เสียศูนย์” ในวันที่
“ความหมายเพียงหนึ่งเดียว” เดินทางออกจากบ้านได้
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ประการต่อมา
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ลูกหลายคนจะรับรู้ได้ว่า
พ่อแม่มีพวกเขาเป็น “ความหมายเพียงหนึ่งเดียว” ของชีวิต
ซึ่งมันสามารถสร้างความกดดันให้กับลูก
ทำให้ลูกไม่กล้าตัดสินใจในหลายๆเรื่องที่ลูกต้องการ
(แต่อาจทำให้พ่อแม่เสียใจได้)
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ยกตัวอย่างเช่น
ลูกไม่กล้าคว้าโอกาสที่จะได้ทำงานในฝันของลูก
เพราะหากลูกตัดสินใจแบบนั้นลงไป
ลูกจะต้องไปทำงานที่ต่างประเทศ
และลูกรู้ว่ามันจะส่งผลกระทบต่อความรู้สึกของพ่อแม่
เป็นต้น
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ประการสุดท้าย
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หนึ่งในบทเรียนที่ลูกจะได้เรียนรู้จากพ่อแม่
ไม่ได้มาจากคำสั่งสอนของพ่อแม่
แต่มาจากการกระทำของพ่อแม่
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ฉะนั้น หากลูกมองเห็นพ่อแม่ใช้ชีวิตโดยที่
“ใส่ไข่ทั้งหมดในตะกร้าใบเดียว” เช่นนี้
ลูกก็อาจจะเกิดการเรียนรู้ว่า…
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ชีวิตที่ดีคือชีวิตที่มีครอบครัว
ชีวิตที่ดีคือชีวิตที่มีลูก
ชีวิตที่ดีคือชีวิตที่เสียสละทุกอย่างเพื่อลูก
ชีวิตที่ดีคือชีวิตที่เสียสละตัวเองเพื่อคนอื่น
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…ซึ่งบทเรียนเหล่านี้มีโอกาสที่จะสร้างปัญหาตามมาได้พอสมควรเลยครับ
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ยกตัวอย่างเช่น
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จะเกิดอะไรขึ้นหากลูกไม่สามารถสร้างครอบครัวหรือมีลูกได้?
(ไม่ว่าจะเป็นเพราะข้อจำกัดทางร่างกาย เศรษฐกิจ หรือข้อจำกัดด้านอื่นๆก็ตาม)
ในกรณีแบบนี้ แสดงว่าลูกจะไม่มีวันมีชีวิตที่ดีอย่างนั้นหรือ?
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บทเรียนเหล่านี้กำลังสอนว่า
ลูกควรจะเป็น people pleaser ที่ตามใจคนอื่น
แม้ว่าตัวเองจะไม่ไหวหรือเปล่า?
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เป็นต้น
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ทั้งหมดที่ผมเขียนมานี้ ผมไม่ได้มีเจตนาที่จะสื่อว่า
พ่อแม่ไม่ควรรักลูกหรือพ่อแม่ไม่ควรเสียสละเพื่อลูกนะครับ
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การที่พ่อแม่รักลูกหรือเสียสละเพื่อลูกนั้นเป็นสิ่งที่สวยงามมากครับ
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อย่างไรก็ตาม
มันปฏิเสธไม่ได้จริงๆครับว่า
การที่พ่อแม่ทุ่มเทเพื่อลูกในลักษณะ
“ใส่ไข่ทั้งหมดในตะกร้าใบเดียว” นั้น
ถือเป็นการตัดสินใจที่มีข้อควรระวังอย่างชัดเจนเช่นกันครับ
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อ้างอิง
https://www.scientificamerican.com/article/the-myth-of-joyful-parenthood/
Grumet, J. (2025). The Purpose Code: How to Unlock Meaning, Maximize Happiness, and Leave a Lasting Legacy
#จิตวิทยา #siamstr
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@ 3f770d65:7a745b24
2025-02-26 01:54:50
Expecting everyone to run a Lightning node is as unrealistic as expecting everyone to run a Nostr relay. The key to mass adoption lies in better user experience and improved technology solutions.
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@ 9c2e0a87:13c420d2
2025-02-26 01:54:48
Florida is not one place just like how NorthEast is not one place.
Cambridge, MA:
https://image.nostr.build/d797aa13d6b1c640e99ef724565aeab512169608afe445a7a824df736a05ba46.png
is very different from Kensington, PA:
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no i haven't been to Kensington, but i have been to Cambridge. it was paradise but also it was August and it will be different picture in January and i can't afford anything there anyway.
ideally you would have one home in Miami and one in Cambridge and spend half a year in each ... as soon as i win the lottery.
actually i haven't been to Miami but i do know the winters there are significantly milder than even in Orlando.
it was cool before and after i was in Orlando - it just happened to be summer weather while i was there.
Miami would be a great place ( climate wise ) to live during winter and Boston during summer. but this would cost about 4X as much as having one home in Orlando.
again, i haven't been to Miami - it would have been a fairly long drive from Orlando.
on other hand hand i did drop by Tampa to check out the goth night scene there as it was just 1 hour drive from Orlando ! i managed to checkout the night scene in both Orlando and Tampa in the same night. as advertised Tampa has goths while Orlando and Jacksonville do not.
as goth-adjacent myself i like having the option to hit up Tampa like that ... but i wouldn't want to live in Tampa myself ... it's a bit more run down than Orlando and so is JAX.
Orlando is a step up from both JAX and Tampa.
Miami is PROBABLY a step up from Orlando, but not sure.
Ponte Vedra ( and to lesser extent Nocatee ) in St. John's county is VERY nice but those aren't cities. they are JAX suburbs and JAX is a dump.
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@ 4bf3a313:bf6af7d5
2025-02-26 01:54:13
Absolutely stunning nostr:npub1e2rd2k45ym2jmctnysfadxumrvrr57vqj69ck6trt2y62c40r0kqs9lx8t. Thank you. So many talented Nostriches.
#circulareconomy
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@ c558c7cc:b0b7b89e
2025-02-26 01:52:30
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@ c5337187:a5f35224
2025-02-26 01:51:46
Bitcoin: 88418 USD
1 Satoshi = 0.00088418 USD
https://files.catbox.moe/1at4fe.png
#bitcoin #crypto #price
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@ 79219b2e:6904e08e
2025-02-26 01:51:24
โอ้วจริงด้วย
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@ e7bf8dad:839ef3db
2025-02-26 01:50:15
Block 885329
8 - high priority
7 - medium priority
6 - low priority
4 - no priority
2 - purging
#bitcoinfees #mempool
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@ 8925425a:70dddd1c
2025-02-26 01:46:15
干妹子也只是人生的一部分而已。
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@ 832b77d5:a5e3d55c
2025-02-26 01:45:58
🟥SELL BTC for EUR
Price: 84402.42EUR (0%)
BTC: 0.0118
EUR: 996
Method: SEPA
Created: 2025-02-26T01:45:20Z
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@ 8925425a:70dddd1c
2025-02-26 01:45:18
摸鱼摸到心态炸裂。
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@ a0f0ad35:2a9c4cff
2025-02-26 01:44:34
Thank you for the support, brother! 🥳🤝🙏
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@ e07773a9:4a98108a
2025-02-26 01:43:38
Telstra already announced earlier in the year that they were planning this in partnership with Starlink
https://www.telstra.com.au/exchange/telstra-to-bring-spacex-s-starlink-satellite-to-mobile-technolog
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@ bf2376e1:e5526bce
2025-02-26 01:43:15
AI-liens
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