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@ Rebecca Knight
2024-12-27 11:49:15One of the most valuable skills in this industry isn’t about appearance or physicality—it’s about learning to read people. Understanding someone’s emotions, intentions, and desires from the moment they walk in the door is a skill I’ve honed over time. It’s about picking up on both verbal and non-verbal cues to create an experience tailored to each individual.
The Importance of First Impressions
The first few moments of a meeting set the tone for everything that follows.
- Body Language: The way someone stands, how they look at you, their posture—these all provide clues about how they’re feeling.
- Facial Expressions: A smile or a furrowed brow can say more than words ever could.
- Voice and Tone: Is their voice steady or shaking? Are they soft-spoken, or do they speak with confidence? These can reveal nerves, excitement, or something else entirely.
Paying Attention to the Unspoken
While words are important, it’s often what’s not said that reveals the most.
- Subtle Shifts: A change in breathing, a lingering glance, or fidgeting hands can indicate anxiety or anticipation.
- Comfort Levels: A relaxed posture or engaging in more relaxed conversation shows they’re settling in. Tension might point to discomfort or uncertainty.
The Emotional Temperature
Each client brings their own energy into the room. Being able to gauge their mood helps tailor the experience.
- Stress vs. Relaxation: Some clients may arrive stressed, needing someone to help them unwind. Others might be in a playful mood, eager for light-hearted fun.
- Vulnerability: Occasionally, clients may come seeking emotional connection or comfort, making it important to be sensitive to their needs.
Trusting Your Instincts
Over time, you learn to trust your gut. There are moments when you sense something isn’t quite right, and it’s essential to honour that feeling.
- Reading Between the Lines: Sometimes, clients may not be direct about what they want or need. It’s your job to gently read between the lines, offering them a safe space to express themselves.
- Comfort and Boundaries: Understanding when to push forward or back off is a fine balance that only comes with experience.
A Skill That Grows
Learning to read people isn’t something that happens overnight—it’s developed with every interaction, every client, and every experience. It’s a combination of observation, intuition, and empathy. And in many ways, it’s what makes this job not just about the physical, but about connecting with someone on a deeper level.
Rebecca x