@ Alexander Finnegan
2025-02-19 11:54:40
In America, we're dead inside
When I was a kid, sometimes I had bad dreams. Scared, I went into my parents’ room. My Mom would let me sleep next to her until I wasn’t scared anymore. Their bed was large and I was small so I didn’t take up much room. It didn’t affect my father’s sleep space. “Get him out of here,” he would say, annoyed. My Mom let me stay. It didn’t happen every night. And I only stayed long enough to be comforted.
Much of life is this way. When we feel alone and terrified, the love of another person can mean everything to us. It doesn’t have to come from both parents. One is enough. But there are so many children who don’t even have one parent who loves them. Life, for them, is nasty, brutal, and horrible. No wonder it would be harder for them to properly bond with others later in life, because they have learned that nobody cares about them. Why trust in someone else, when nobody has proven trustworthy? That causes your soul to wither on the vine. This is the same as parents who let their infants “cry it out” in the other room before they have established sleep schedules. A child learns that life is being alone, crying in the dark, until they despair—nobody is coming to rescue them. This is is also why so many people are emotionally dead inside. The capacity to love others in a normal way cannot be fully developed if stunted during the first 7 months of life, according to child development experts.
One of the major differences I have noticed between people here in Latin America compared to the US is that the child-rearing practices are radically different. In America, many children are assigned their own bedroom from the first day they are brought home from the hospital. They are permitted to “cry it out.” Their mothers are forced to go back to work within a few weeks because there is no paid maternity leave. The children grow up in daycare. Bullying in schools is normalized. Parents who complain to the administration find themselves bullied. Parents who complained at school board meetings about their opposition to “Drag Queen Story Hour” found themselves put on the Domestic Terrorist Watch List. Some had CPS weaponized against them. In California, refusal to acknowledge your child’s trans status is enough to have them taken by CPS.
Contrast that with Latin America. The mothers and fathers are always holding their babies, carrying them everywhere. If they run a tienda, they have the baby with them. When it cries, they attend to it. The child learns it can trust and depend upon its parents. It feels loved. Families are close, and sometimes multiple generations live on a plot of land with multiple little dwellings. Elderly people are cared for by the younger generation. There aren’t nursing homes. Kids aren’t taken by CPS if the parents deadname them.
The US formula is one for breeding generations of psychopaths. This is reminiscent of England, which is also boss level at raising psychopaths in its “upper classes.” Many of these children spend most of their childhoods in elite boarding schools, away from their parents. That’s not a healthy formula for strengthening families. Here in Latin America, many of the governments have traditionally been corrupt, along with the police. That’s why Whatsapp became popular with its end-to-end encryption, because people don’t trust the government to not spy on them. And when the government knew too much, people end up going missing. Guatemala and El Salvador learned the hard way, that government isn’t your friend, and that family is everything. There are many people in America who trust the cops more than they trust their own families. Given the way families are, maybe I am wrong to judge them. People in Latin America learned that you stick together as a family for strength because those in power aren’t going to look out for you. In America, White liberal women have been groomed to be suspicious of men, to hate them, and to not properly bond with their own husbands. They have learned to support a massive government that gives them unfair advantages in family courts, provides them benefits so they don’t have to “rely on a man,” and they expect the cops to keep them safe. They don’t need a man to protect them from danger. The Girl Boss doesn’t need men.
All of this is done as a form of social engineering to divide and conquer. The family is the largest source of decentralized power in a society. If you seek to centralize power you need to divide the family and keep men and women at each other’s throats. Build suspicion between them. You also need to weaken the men, because normal, self-respecting males won’t tolerate living like that. That’s why normal masculinity is now labeled “toxic masculinity.” But it is also why, at a fundamental level, why these women don’t respect men, because they know they have chosen to be betas just to fit in, and this isn’t attractive. It is against how women have evolved to select mates. So everybody is unhappy. Meanwhile, people stop having children as the economy continues to break down and people become more selfish. Everything is framed as “what do I have to give up for someone else” instead of “look how family and children are a treasure.” When you consider any act done by yourself on behalf of someone else as a sacrifice, then you are closed to the possibility that caring for someone else isn’t a sacrifice because you get more back than you have given, and that instead of running out, you are enriched. It’s like exercise. You don’t deplete yourself forever with exercise, but rather you grow stronger from it. Perhaps the difference is that if you are a psychopath you cannot see loving another person as anything but an inconvenience. America has a psychopathy problem.
Feminism was used to destroy the family so the West could be depopulated. It has succeeded. Wealthy elites who seek to maintain their power in the face of mass unemployment caused by AI and robotics making work redundant are well prepared for what is to come. Larry Fink, CEO of Blackrock, has said repeatedly that depopulation is good because it reduces civil unrest when jobs are automated and people are fired. That’s the whole idea behind the foreign worker visas as well. Once a job is replaced by AI, you just fire the person and they have to leave. It’s the people who aren’t going anywhere and don’t have jobs, food, or housing and are well armed that you have to worry about organizing and fighting back. Better if they are emasculated by their Girl Boss partners. Hell, better yet, put Atrazine in the water and reduce their testosterone levels so they won’t have the inclination to fight back at all. Biden’s FBI and weaponized DOJ did thousands of SWAT raids, doing no-knock raids that often led the father of the house being murdered. These were essentially death squads which targeted traditional Catholics, anti-abortion protesters, and conservatives. Many of them were put on the Domestic Terrorist Watch List and some were stalked by InfraGard. The January 6’ers were unfairly prosecuted and many were jailed for years until Trump pardoned them. Now we are seeing how USAID was being used to destabilize the entire world and destroy families all over. Now we see how the gay rights movement was co-opted by wealthy elites and NGO’s to foment color revolutions in nations which also happened to have vast natural resources like oil or lithium. How convenient.