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@ The Beave
2025-05-04 10:57:26
I've done similar stuff for people I've never met IRL.
Some of my "crazy internet friends" are the best people in my life.
You do what you need to do. Sometimes wives are wrong about things and honestly could do with a dose of stfu. She's always going to put her safety first, and that's usually a good thing for a family, but... There needs to be limits on that because there are many times going out into the umknown is the correct thing to do.
You are not doing anything wrong. In fact, I think you are doing the kind and decent thing helping a man who is having a really rough go in a new land, trying to take care of his own family.
Not that it makes your situation with your wife any less difficult.