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@ Subema
2025-02-02 20:42:37
Let’s be real—sticking to *anything* for 90 days is like trying to herd cats on espresso. You start strong, then **life happens**: kids, chores, or that *one* glass of wine that makes you forget foot rubs (#relatable). But here’s the thing: 90-day challenges aren’t about perfection. They’re about bribing your lizard brain with rewards and scaring it straight with punishments.
## **The Game Plan**
First, pick a thing—something that makes you feel like a devoted servant or a slightly frazzled superhero. Daily foot care? Chores with a side of #FLR flair? Cool. Now, break it into chunks: 30 days (survival mode), 60 days (grind phase), and 90 days (victory lap).
Keeping up something for so long is no joke. That's why you need those little checkpoints along the way. Each milestone should feel special—30 days deserves celebration, 60 days something more meaningful, and 90 days? That's your victory dance moment.
Reality check: some days will suck, and you'll want to skip. **That's where having everything planned out helps.** When your brain is foggy and you're tired, you don't want to be negotiating with yourself about what counts and what doesn't. The hardest part isn't even doing the thing—it's remembering to do it every single day, until it feels wrong NOT to do it.
## **Why It (Maybe) Works**
Three months is long enough for habits to stick, short enough to see the finish line. Plus, tying it to power exchange? Genius. Every foot rub or denied cum becomes a ritual, proof you're leveling up as a sub/human/slightly-messy adult. And let's be honest—nothing fuels devotion like a mix of structure, desperation, and the occasional humiliating punishment.
## **Current run**
My current challenge is to get my wife/godess/object of my insatiable kinky thoughts/partner feet massaged with special cream. It's for making evyrthing soft, help nails and yadayadayada. Basically preping her feet for more instensive worshiping. She doesn't know my hidden agenda and I am not sure if I would really be into it, since I am more into being her devout toy than having foot fetish, but I think it will be all the same if I put myself juuust right.
So for my rewards I have planned these?
- **30 days**: Tiny dopamine hit. *(making little photoset of Her feet playing with my hardon… for science.)*
- **60 days**: Mid-tier flex. *(cleaning mushed banana split off Her toes tongue only)*
- **90 days**: Go nuclear. *(a tiny foot spa whirpool because She deserves it, damn it :D and it will create more opportunities for... you know )*
As for the hhip part of the sugar duo... It was easy having one for my shaving rutine, but here? Not sure and it's bad that I ave started challenge without having them prepared... May be that warrant more punishment?
## **TL;DR**
90-day challenges are the BDSM of self-improvement: **consensual, slightly painful, and weirdly addictive.**
Fail? Reset, adapt, try again. Win? Congrats, you’re now 10% more disciplined and 100% more bumptious on Nostr.
#90days #FLR #LostCauseButStillTrying #femdom