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@ Kip Ashlynn
2025-05-06 18:06:56
In crafting written communication diction does communicate tone. So when you choose to use vernacular that communicates disrespect, such as calling someone retarded multiple times on a rather innocuous post, it does communicate negative emotions. When you choose to bring in unrelated argument points, like women's voting rights when no one was talking about that, it makes it seem like you're trying to make people angry. It is a bad faith argument. Since much behavior is rooted in projection, I think it's fairly rational to assume that you're probably feeling what you're trying to get others to feel: anger.
You're framing the world as if men and women are enemies. That seems strange to me, because I am surrounded by examples of men and women loving each other and building communities together. When I dream of a utopian future, it is exactly that on a grand scale. If we are enemies, then I would like to share a philosopher from way back when who preached to love your enemies, a great source is the Gospel of Matthew 5:44.
When I am angry I find it is often rooted in fear. Some of my deepest fears are to be trapped toiling in a role that brings me despair, when what I see as my greatest talents are unappreciated by those who disrespect me. Maybe you can relate to that?
Good luck, internet stranger, I hope God sends you grace to find peace and love that we all deserve.