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@ BujuX
2025-05-08 02:51:57
My wife doesn't beef with my mother because boundaries were crossed several years ago. So, we had to make a few bottomlines.
What does that look like?
1. No bad-mouthing or a temporary time out (phone, virtual or no contact).
2. No visits at either homes and only at neutral areas due to power dynamics and discomfort.
3. No adult conflict in the presence of children.
4. By outlying specific desired behaviors (what topics were off limits etc), there is an expectation on mannerism and conduct.
Remember people will only treat you the way you allow them to.
Hopes this helps those in similar situations. I have more tips if you have any specific questions. I got you.