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@ Tommy Volk
2025-04-27 13:43:42
I prefer to be curious about my feelings rather than put moral labels on them. I’ve found that if I have unresolved negative feelings towards someone, it’s usually either because I’m still in a situation of danger (emotional, physical, or whatever sort originally caused the negative feelings) or I think that I can mend/improve the relationship. If I’m not in danger and cannot improve the relationship (or acknowledge that the other person is a narcissist and there was no relationship to begin with) then my feelings tend to subside.